Let’s Talk About Disabled Sex and Joy
Shanya Luther Shanya Luther

Let’s Talk About Disabled Sex and Joy

Sexuality doesn’t stop at the threshold of bodies labelled “disabled” — in fact, for many disabled people it opens up a whole new playbook of pleasure, creativity, adaptation and joy. Disabled sex can absolutely be joyful, playful, exploratory, raucous, tender, kinky — all of the above. It deserves its place in the conversation.

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Understanding Daily Stressors and Supporting Individuals with Intellectual and/or Developmental Disabilities
Shanya Luther Shanya Luther

Understanding Daily Stressors and Supporting Individuals with Intellectual and/or Developmental Disabilities

Daily stressors—though small in isolation—can accumulate into significant strain for individuals with intellectual and/or developmental disabilities. By combining structured environments, personalized coping tools, social support, and professional guidance, we can create compassionate, empowering support systems that foster resilience, calm, and thriving for those with developmental differences.

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Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) & People with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities (ID/DD)
Shanya Luther Shanya Luther

Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) & People with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities (ID/DD)

People with ID/DD absolutely deserve sexual-health care that is accessible, respectful, and proactive — including STI education, prevention, testing, and treatment. While research suggests lower documented STI rates for people with ID/DD, this should not breed complacency. Rather it should drive more inclusive practices, better communication, and systematic support.

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Centering and Accommodating Non-Verbal and Non-Speaking People
Shanya Luther Shanya Luther

Centering and Accommodating Non-Verbal and Non-Speaking People

Centering and accommodating non-verbal and non-speaking people is both a moral obligation and a practical necessity. By rejecting speech-centric assumptions, embracing AAC and diverse communication strategies, and ensuring environments foster inclusion, we uphold the fundamental right of every person to be heard — in their own way.

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When a Client with ID/DD Comes Out: A Guide for Supportive Practice
Shanya Luther Shanya Luther

When a Client with ID/DD Comes Out: A Guide for Supportive Practice

When a client who has intellectual and/or developmental disabilities (ID/DD) shares that they are gay, bisexual, or transgender, it can be a meaningful moment of trust and disclosure. How a support professional, caregiver, or ally responds in that moment can have lasting impact on the individual’s sense of identity, dignity, belonging, and mental‐health.

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How Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities Can Impact Sex Drive
Shanya Luther Shanya Luther

How Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities Can Impact Sex Drive

Sex drive in adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities does not follow a one-size-fits-all pattern. Some may experience high levels of sexual desire (hypersexuality), others low desire (hyposexuality), and many may fluctuate or fall somewhere in between depending on life stage, health, environment, and education.

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